Helplessness and anger make for predictable behavior: Children are certain to shove each other and pull hair, teenagers will call each other names and cry, and grown women who are sisters will say words so cruel that each syllable will take on the form of a snake, although such a snake often circles in on itself to eat its own tail once the words are said aloud. Alice Hoffman
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A person who is really angry means that he/she has a problem with self-esteem, a person who has a hard time accepting reality. They cannot accept things as they are and find it very hard to accept other people as well. This is because, they do not see themselves as having any value. They do not see themselves for who they really are, as a beautiful person with an important place in the world.

They believe that they are not beautiful or important and that nobody will love them as they really are. A person who lives in anger will be the one to bully others and cause problems for those around him/her by spreading rumors and causing gossip among people. The idea of a snake eating its own tail is a metaphor used to describe the effect of one’s words.

It is a way of saying that even if someone says something unpleasant, it will come back around to bite them in the ass somehow.

Source: Practical Magic

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